Bondage play is as easy or complex while you like. You donвЂ™t want to use any gear in the event that you donвЂ™t wish. Bondage may be 100% psychological. As an example: inform your spouse вЂњhold the headboard, and donвЂ™t allow goвЂќ. Presuming she plays along, she actually is efficiently вЂњtiedвЂќ to your headboard, however it provides her a whole lot of control, and she does not have to move an excessive amount of into uncharted territory. This is good first rung on the ladder (though admittedly, one weвЂ™ve never used).
We used were old ties when we started out, the first thing. People we didnвЂ™t like and didnвЂ™t care when they go wrecked/ripped/creased/stained. Ties are excellent, since they are versatile and everyone comes with a tie that is old or two, lying around. Plus, they have a tendency become soft. We utilized them to bind hands (like cuffs), foot, legs to arms, utilize them as a blindfold, etc.. The biggest disadvantage: knots can be difficult to get free from them, and additionally they arenвЂ™t very long, to ensure that limits some of the choices.